What they don’t teach in dental assisting school

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Dental assisting programs provide a foundation in clinical knowledge, patient care, and safety procedures — but not every skill can be learned in a classroom. Sometimes, the only way to learn is through real-world experience. From managing fast-paced schedules to guiding patients through complex procedures, some on-the-job skills come with time, observation, and hands-on practice.

“School is the foundation,” says John, a dental assistant from Pittsburgh. However, he notes that once dental assistants “get into the real world,” that is when they start truly applying what they’ve learned and refining their rapport with patients and interpersonal skills.

Whether you’re about to begin your first dental assisting job or looking for tips to grow in your role, these are some common skills dental assistants learned in the workplace.

Mastering chairside presence

Knowing how to communicate with patients, having a calm demeanor, and noticing when a patient needs something are all essential parts of mastering chairside presence. The more experience dental assistants have interacting with patients, the better they become at reading how a patient feels.

“I strengthened my chairside manner in several ways,” says Francine. “First, experience played a major role — the more time I spent chairside, the more confident, efficient, and clinically skilled I became. With experience also came a better understanding of how to communicate with patients, anticipate their needs, and help them feel comfortable during treatment.”

Chairside presence is crucial during procedures, as dental assistants must know the process of each one and be able to anticipate what instrument is needed next. DANB’s General Chairside Assisting (GC) exam — a component of Certified Dental Assistant certification — covers chairside practices so dental assistants can affirm their knowledge to best support patients and dentists. When working with a new doctor, dental assistants should communicate with them to understand their specific routines.

“Knowing the steps and doing them are two different things,” says Gillian. “Every doctor is different and does things in a different way, so you can build a great working relationship with them if you can nail down what their preferences are.”

Keeping up with a busy schedule

It’s tricky to emulate the busyness of working full-time in a practice in the classroom or even in an externship, so dental assistants typically don’t get the full picture of their workday until they’re working in a practice. Dental assistants learn time management skills that allow them to keep up with patient appointments, infection control processes, administrative responsibilities, and all other duties within their role.

Francine says, “I learned early in my career that feeling overwhelmed only makes busy days more challenging. During those times, it is important to remain positive and stay calm. Effective time management is essential in a fast-paced dental office, as it helps the day run efficiently while ensuring patients receive quality care.”

Real-world experience also teaches dental assistants how to prioritize responsibilities and have increased schedule awareness. These skills are especially helpful when there is a last-minute schedule change or emergency appointment.

Managing complex patient cases

Every patient has unique needs, dental experiences, and personalities. From working in a practice, dental assistants learn how to handle patients with fears and anxiety, respond to frustrated patients, and stay professional if a patient is rude or dismissive.

Over time, dental assistants learn how to approach each patient with empathy and patience, adjusting their communication style to help all patients feel comfortable and supported throughout their visit.

“Helping patients receive the smile they’ve always wanted is so rewarding,” says Denys. “Getting them to feel comfortable and motivated to take care of their oral health is very important to me. My goal is to be part of the comfort we provide and a source of trust for patients.”

Building patient loyalty

Dental assistants are a key source of support for patients and are skilled at creating long-lasting relationships with them. Meeting patients where they’re at, breaking down complex treatment terminology, and personalizing education can all increase patient loyalty. One way dental assistants build patient trust is through education. For instance, DANB’s infection control survey reveals 52% of patients want their dental offices to discuss cleaning and safety more. Dental assistants can inform patients on the practice’s infection control processes, so patients feel confident they are receiving treatment in a clean, sterile environment.

Francine says, “Dental assistants build patient loyalty by creating a positive and comfortable experience for each patient. When assistants are kind, approachable, and able to relate to patients, it helps build trust and ease anxiety. Patients who feel comfortable and cared for are more likely to return and even request the same assistant for future visits.”

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